Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Karwa Chauth


The fast of Karwa Chauth is of particular importance to all Hindu married women in India. They believe that the festival ensures prosperity, longevity, and overal well-being of their husbands.
The origin of this festival was based on a very sweet and noble idea. Though this idea has lost its true sense as today the whole outlook of this festival has changed.
In the ancient time, girls used to get married at a very early stage, and had to go and live with their in-laws in other villages. After marriage, if she faces any problem with her in-laws or her husband, she would have no one to talk to or seek support from. There used to be no telephones, buses and trains long ago. Her own parents and relatives would be quite far and unreachable. Thus the custom started that, at the time of marriage, when bride would reach her in-laws, she would befriend another woman there who would be her friend or sister for life. It would be like god-friends or god-sisters. Their friendship would be sanctified through a small Hindu ceremony right during the marriage.
Once the bride and this woman had become god-friends or god-sisters, they would remain so all their lives and recognize the relation as such. They would also treat each other like real sisters.
Later in life, if she faces any difficulty related to her husband or in-laws, she would be able to confidently talk or seek help from each other. Thus, Karwa Chauth was started to as a festival to celebrate this relationship between the once-brides and their god-friends (god-sisters). Fasting and praying for husband came later and is secondary. It was probably added, along with other mythical tales, to enhance the festival. The husband would always be associated with this festival, because the day of starting this holy friendship between two god-sisters was essentially the day of bride's marriage to him. Thus, praying and fasting for him by his wife during a celebration of her relationship with the god-friend would be quite logical.
Hence, the festival of Karwa Chauth was to renew and celebrate the relationship between god-friends (god-sisters). It had a tremendous social and cultural significance when world was not having the way to communicate and move around easily.

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Festivities

Given the fact that India is a democratic country with people of many religions staying together, there is a string of festivals that follow one after the other. All year through.
October onwards, the number of festivals are the maximum. Be it Navratras, Dushera, Ramadan, Diwali, Eid, Guru Nanak Jayanti, Christmas... And more. Navratras just ended. Dushera was celebrated with much pomp. Karva chauth is round the corner. And so is Diwali. So much fun!
Diwali is a festival of lights in which the diyas are filled with oil/clarified butter and lighted. This signifies the triumph of good over evil. I am eagerly looking forward for Diwali this year because it'll be my first Diwali in my own home. Decorations, light, prayers...

Monday, October 11, 2010


Yaaron, dosti badi hi haseen hai, yeh na ho toh kya phir bolo yeh zindagi hai..

Koi toh ho raazdaar, begaraz tera ho yaar.. Koi toh ho raazdaar...

Yaaron, mohabbat badi hi bandagi hai, yeh na ho toh kya phir bolo yeh zindagi hai..

Koi toh dilbar ho yaar, jisko tujhse ho pyaar.. Koi toh dilbar ho yaar....

Teri har ek buraai pe daante woh dost.. Ghum ki ho dhoop, toh saaya bane woh dost..

Naache bhi woh teri khushi main..

The words of these song, by an amazing Indian singer KK, bring out the essence of friendship & love. Reminds me of some nice memories.